and I hate it.

Partner and I are pretty damn vanilla in bed, and the idea of accessories was a discussion that took a while for both of us to warm up to. I bought a dinky $15 vibrator (came with a condom!) at the drugstore.

i am 30 and i bought my first sex toy

This thing is POWERFUL. It was numbing my finger. I think it's too much for what I like on my nether yeah, and I didn't use it on him long because my finger was going to vibrate off my body. So: Now that we've broken the ice, we're definitely open to other toys, but I have no idea where to start. The drugstore actually had a decent selection (holla, london drugs!) from $15-$180.