This guy messaged me on okc so I checked out his profile:

Is being ripped and good in bed no longer important?

Men model themselves on what they think they would want if they were in a relationship with themselves. We strive to be toned, athletic, good cooks and great in bed. And yet now I've achieved this I still haven't found the right person.

Is no one looking for a gentleman anymore?

I take pride in being a good cook. Always being able to make people laugh and generally looking after people's well beings.

A great believer in happiness for all.