I don't know how many people know Madison Hinton (I didn't before this; I'm not a bigdickbitch.com follower.), but her part in this discussion is the first one I came across that sounded like this and I think it is a solid addition. I didn't expect a trans person to tell other trans people that the solution to being clocked as a man is to "step their pussy up."
Here is her video from Facebook.
This might not be safe for work because of language.