I am trying to negotiate with that new job—I haven't fully accepted the offer yet. I just got all the info about benefits and I'd be paying more for medical and all that stuff. And I don't think the 401k is as good...so I'm trying to negotiate to make up for that. I just sent the email. The worst they can do is reject it, right? And not be like, "You are terrible no more job offer for you!" ?????

I'm terrified (Update!)

They met me half way! And I accepted their offer! Now I'm terrified about having to put in my notice here. I don't know how to phrase it! They want me to start on the 19th!