I've been with my boyfriend for around 9 months. However, I don't know anything about his past relationships or sex life or anything. And he doesn't really know about mine. Is that weird? Not saying that we're secretive or that we're hiding things. If I asked, I'm sure he would tell. It's just not something we've ever ended up ever talking about or cared too much to probe around about. If our past experiences really shaped who we are, then I can see how that would be important to talk about. But I don't think that's the case for either of us.

I mean, I guess I'm a bit curious now that we've been together for a good portion of this past year. But I'm not in **OMG DIRE NEED TO KNOW** mode. We're really indifferent people, though. Maybe it's just in our personality.