This video has been all over my Facebook about a bunch of women who cut their hair in support of their friend who has cancer.

I completely cringed. If I ever got cancer, come keep me company in chemo, let me tell you that I'm scared, get me icy watermelon slushees for my mouth sores. (Been there, done that for others.)

But I would never EVER want you to cut your hair for me. It'd be one thing if you were doing it for your kid, but as a grown adult I just don't need other people to look like cancer victims. That would not make me feel better.

It's not that I wouldn't appreciate the gesture, but ... it wouldn't actually help me in a way that I need.