As some of you know, reading the relationships subreddit is my guilty pleasure. It is usually filled with ridiculous 16 year olds asking if talking to any member of the opposite sex is cheating or if it's too soon to move in with their boyfriend of one month and it is hilarious. Many of the commenters are also ridiculous but at least somewhat less sexist/racist as I've come to expect from reddit. Which is why I was surprised at the comments on this post: http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship...

That is, until I learned that the post had been shared on the red pill. It was also linked to by jezebel (here: http://theconcourse.deadspin.com/pouty-husband-...) and the comments are more reasonable but I'm still shocked at how many people are like "what can she expect, she rejected him so many times!"

I don't care what your relationship is like, sending a spreadsheet of times your spouse said no to sex to their work email along with "this is why I won't miss you for the 10 days you're gone" on their way to the airport for a business trip and then refusing to answer any calls or texts for the next day makes you the bad guy in this situation. No reasonable human being behaves this way. And if you read something like that on the internet and your immediate response is "god, she must be a frigid bitch for him to do that" then, congratulations! You're a misogynist!

(Sorry for any shitty formatting, I'm trying to do his from my phone.)