Can I Borrow a Feeling?

Would anyone care to lend me a glob of love on this Thought Catalog article? I so hate the "menz is like this and ladiez is like THIS" style of anything that it might be blinding me to the fact that maybe this isn't the worst.

But I suspect that this is the worst.

Plus the "girls" section comes off as weirdly shame-y. I dunno, man.

Also, why does the photo look like Carmen Sandiego? Is she a girl or a woman?