I am so jealous of my husband's career success and I feel sick about it. He just got another raise, so he now makes 1.5 times the amount of money I do. I have more education and way more student loan debt. I never wanted to be a woman with a husband breadwinner; I have always wanted it to be equal.

There was a period of time that I was working at a horrible job with a pretty shitty boss, and he was winning a new award every week, and I was so upset at the contrast. And now I am up for a new job that would nearly double my salary, and I don't think I got it, and here he gets this raise unexpectedly. Again. This is the 3rd time it has happened. It's great for us as a couple, but I wish I could be the one with good career news for once. :(