We have our weddding invitations ordered. 200 of them. Most of which will be sent to people on the East Coast who are either self absorbed assholes and won't bother to fly out here for a wedding or are good folks we would love to come but can't afford to fly out to Oklahoma. What's funny is some of the older folks on her side of discussed eloping, even her mom. We talked about it but i think if she did it then it would be for me mostly. She said she wouldn't mind it but i know she wants to have a nice wedding at her church. IO just want my marriage to start.